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Something Old, New, Borrowed, and Blue

April 27th, 2015

Have you found your “something old, new, borrowed, and blue?” You may be surprised to find out that this well-known saying is missing a final item. This Victorian era tradition started from the Old English rhyme “Something Olde, Something New, Something Borrowed, Something Blue, a Silver Sixpence in Her Shoe” but most American brides choose to leave out the silver coin (although you can easily incorporate the tradition by purchasing a sixpence at your local bride shop or at online retailers such as Amazon). Each item of the tradition is a token of good luck for the bride and helps to ensure a happy marriage.

Here are some ideas for how you can incorporate this tradition into your big day!

Something Old

Something old symbolizes continuity with the bride’s family and the past. Add something old by incorporating a piece of jewelry from a family member. If you already have your wedding jewelry picked out use a family member’s brooch to pin the binding of your bouquet! If you are going for a modern look and you are afraid that antique jewelry may not work with your look try pinning a brooch to the inside of your dress, it doesn’t have to be visible but you can still have this special memento close to your heart!

Source left: WedLuxe Photo Credit: Misty Enright Photography Source right: Brides Photo Credit: Perry Vaile

Source left: WedLuxe Photo Credit: Misty Enright Photography Source right: Brides Photo Credit: Perry Vaile

Something New

Something new symbolizes optimism for the future. Something new can be an easy item to check off your list if you are wearing a new wedding dress, new wedding makeup, or new garter!

Source left: Bride Guide Photo Credit: The Becker Source right: Green Wedding Shoes Photo Credit: Carl Zoch

Source left: Bride Guide Photo Credit: The Becker Source right: Green Wedding Shoes Photo Credit: Carl Zoch

Something Borrowed

Something borrowed symbolizes borrowed happiness. Borrow an item from a happily married family member or friend and let their marriage act as an inspiration for your happiness. Borrow your veil or jewelry from a woman whose marriage you admire!

Source left: Want That Wedding Photo Credit: Rylee Hitchner Source right: hey Wedding Lady Photo Credit: Ellie Asher

Source left: Want That Wedding Photo Credit: Rylee Hitchner Source right: hey Wedding Lady Photo Credit: Ellie Asher

Something Blue

Something blue symbolizes purity and fidelity. The color blue also represented love in ancient roman times. Add something blue to your wedding day by wearing blue shoes or by tying a blue sash around your dress. For a hidden blue detail have a seamstress add your monogram and wedding date to the lining of your dress.

Source left: The Perfect Palette Source top right: Style Me Pretty Photo Credit: Kelly Sauer Source bottom right: Style Me Pretty Photo Credit: Mint Photography

Source left: The Perfect Palette Source top right: Style Me Pretty Photo Credit: Kelly Sauer Source bottom right: Style Me Pretty Photo Credit: Mint Photography

Now that you have a few ideas on how to incorporate something old, new, borrowed, and blue to your wedding day remember that regardless of what you wear you’re going to have an amazing day and a marriage full of love!

See you soon,

Paula & Martin Ramirez

Martin and Paula Ramirez are the proprietors of Historic Mankin Mansion Wedding Resort. They enjoy opening their hearts & home to host countless happy couples on their most special day. They have lovingly created a private wedding estate like no other and are honored to share their dream with so many beautiful couples!

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Personalizing your Wedding

April 20th, 2015

Wedding personalization is a hot trend and we don’t see it going anywhere any time soon.  A wedding day belongs to the couple, so why not show it in the details? Today, we’re sharing a few ideas on how to customize your wedding to you and your partner’s liking, but remember: when it comes down to it, wedding personalization is all about being creative together!

Initials

What better than to showcase your brand new initials at your reception? Whether it’s done through monogram lighting or as simple as a stamp on your programs or menus, your new initials will be a perfect way to honor your marriage!

Shared Moments

Did you and your other half meet at a wine tasting? Was your first date to a sporting event? Do you share a passion for dogs or for running? Whatever it is, there is surely a way for you and your partner to incorporate your lives together into the details of your wedding.

Honor Your Heritage

Whether Jewish, Indian, Scottish, or Chinese, every culture has certain wedding customs that can easily be adapted into your ceremony. Talk to your family or your in-laws to learn more about the cultural traditions that you can include in your wedding. From the clothing worn to the colors displayed to the food served, there is certainly a way to honor your families on your big day.

Pick the Right Tunes

Of course, there are those songs that are played at every wedding. But, if you want to really amp up the personalization, have a chat with your DJ or band. Share your favorite songs and why they mean so much to you – they are experts in crafting playlists for the night, so let them take it from there!

Photos

A picture is worth a thousand words and weddings are no exception. Include pictures of your loved ones, those who couldn’t join, and even baby pictures of you and your partner. Your guests will love to look at them and it will really add to the experience!

Handwritten Vows

Yep, we saved the best for last. If nothing else, handwritten vows are the truest way of personalizing your wedding. Writing your own vows allows you and your partner to put into words what you genuinely feel for each other, without the constraints of pre-scripted verbiage. Share some favorite moments together or when you truly realized that you were meant to be together – the more sincere, the better. There won’t be a dry eye in the room, and that includes you!

There are so many ways to make your special day belong to you and your partner. What are your favorite ideas?

See you soon,

Paula & Martin Ramirez

Martin and Paula Ramirez are the proprietors of Historic Mankin Mansion Wedding Resort. They enjoy opening their hearts & home to host countless happy couples on their most special day. They have lovingly created a private wedding estate like no other and are honored to share their dream with so many beautiful couples!

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Post-Wedding Recovery

April 6th, 2015

The festivities have ended, the guests have gone back to their hotels, and you and your new spouse are sitting amidst a pile of gifts and emotions. You just had the most spectacular day of your life – but now what? You may feel over the moon or you may feel a bit blue. It’s natural to feel a little drained after such an emotional day, so embrace your feelings, as well as your new life as newlyweds.

Enjoy your Night Together

While it may seem obvious, you and your new partner-in-crime should live it up like it’s the first day of your lives together – oh wait, it is! Stay up late playing board games or dig into the leftover wedding cake and talk about the future. Whatever it means for the two of you, make the evening special.

Wake Up Early

We know you’re tired, but try and get an early start with your partner the following morning. Seize the new day – your first day as a married couple! Brew your favorite coffee and watch the sunrise together. You’ll have plenty of other opportunities to sleep in together!

Open Presents!

You’ve been eyeing that beautifully wrapped package since you saw your cousin drop it off at the gift table. Now is the time to crack open a bottle of wine and open those gifts with your partner! Don’t forget to keep a list of who gave what to make for easy thank-you cards.

Don’t Jump into the Honeymoon

Traditionally, newlyweds jet off to their honeymoon destination the day after their wedding, but it may do you well to hold back a day or two. Give yourselves some time to adjust to being married and enjoy a few days together doing absolutely nothing. You also won’t have to worry about the stress of packing and preparing for a honeymoon trip during the busy days prior to the wedding.

Have Brunch

Who doesn’t love brunch? There’s a good chance that family and close friends will still be in town after the wedding, so hosting a morning-after brunch is a great way to enjoy time with loved ones while staying relaxed and enjoying those blissful hours. Plus, those mimosas have your name written all over them!

 

Of course, these are all suggestions of how to ease into married life together, but what really matters is that you make every moment count. Take silly pictures together. Go on an adventure. You won’t get your first days back, so be sure they’re full of memories!

See you soon,

Paula & Martin Ramirez

Martin and Paula Ramirez are the proprietors of Historic Mankin Mansion Wedding Resort. They enjoy opening their hearts & home to host countless happy couples on their most special day. They have lovingly created a private wedding estate like no other and are honored to share their dream with so many beautiful couples!

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Timeless Wedding Trends

March 30th, 2015

Every year we’re excited to see the newest wedding trends, but to our delight there are some trends that are always in style. Here are some of our favorite timeless wedding trends that continue to be chic year after year!

The Classic White Wedding Dress

Even if you’re getting married after Labor Day, white dresses are always in fashion! White wedding dresses come in a wide variety of cuts and styles that will perfectly fit your personal aesthetic. Having a white dress also allows you to have a little fun with your accessories or flowers. Who doesn’t love the idea of pairing a classic white dress but with a bouquet that incorporates the latest flower trend? A mix of classic and trendy can keep the look fresh, but also prevents regret from being decked out in a passing fad when looking at your wedding pictures with your grandkids years from now.

Roses

When you think weddings, of course gorgeous flowers are first to come to mind! Of all of the beautiful flowers, there is nothing like the timeless rose. Roses are especially perfect for weddings because of the wide range of meanings you can express through the number and color of your roses. We all know that the traditional red rose stands for sincere love, respect, courage, and passion. But, did you know that a bouquet of 99 roses represents that you will love your significant other for as long as you live? Tell your love story without words by choosing the right roses for you!

Monograms

Your name will never go out of style, so why not incorporate your new initials into your wedding? Your wedding is the beginning of many firsts as a married couple, which includes sharing a last name. Your new name will last a lifetime, so be creative and include your new monogram at your wedding. A lovely way to start using your new initials is to have your monogram stitched onto a glamorous robe to wear while getting your wedding hair and make up done. To incorporate your new last initial into your reception, have a beautiful cutout of your new last initial created and use it as a cake topper, or tie it to the back of your bride and groom’s chair as a decoration. The possibilities are endless!

What are your favorite timeless trends? Let us know in the comments!

See you soon,

Paula & Martin Ramirez

Martin and Paula Ramirez are the proprietors of Historic Mankin Mansion Wedding Resort. They enjoy opening their hearts & home to host countless happy couples on their most special day. They have lovingly created a private wedding estate like no other and are honored to share their dream with so many beautiful couples!

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Exciting 2016 Promotion!

March 30th, 2015

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Attention all engaged couples- boy do we have an exciting announcement for you! We’re thrilled to announce  an amazing promotion for our 2016 Mansion couples.

When you book your 2016 wedding at The Mansion, you’ll be entered into a drawing to receive up to $10,000 BACK from your wedding! Simply book your wedding with us, and your name will be entered into a random drawing to take place at the end of our wedding season in 2016. The amount will be dependent on the wedding package you book and please note that this excludes food and beverage fees.

Questions? Don’t hesitate to contact us at weddings (at) historicmankinmansion (dot) come with any questions. Happy planning!

See you soon,

Paula & Martin Ramirez

Martin and Paula Ramirez are the proprietors of Historic Mankin Mansion Wedding Resort. They enjoy opening their hearts & home to host countless happy couples on their most special day. They have lovingly created a private wedding estate like no other and are honored to share their dream with so many beautiful couples!

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Getting Your Rings Down the Aisle

March 23rd, 2015

There are many ways to have your wedding rings sent down the aisle, but what are your options? Here is a mix of our favorite classic, and more unique ways of getting your wedding bands up to the altar, and onto your finger!

Help from the Little Ones

A traditional choice for getting your rings down the aisle is to have a young child from your family act as a flower girl, or ring bearer.

A ring bearer is a cute classic option and is a great way to incorporate a ring pillow that matches the décor of your wedding. We also love the idea of having fun with your ring bearer and having them act as the “ring security.” For this idea you can have your ring bearer carry the rings in a special “lock box” or briefcase marked for the occasion!

If you have a special little lady acting as the flower girl you can have her carry up your rings while spreading petals.  Incorporate your wedding flowers by tying your rings to an easy to hold flower ball.

If your ring bearer or flower girl is too young to walk down the aisle on their own decorate a wagon or buggy with flowers or in colors that match your ceremony. Add a fun sign like “here comes the bride” to announce your walk!

Man’s Best Friend

Another fun option for getting your rings down the aisle it to have your dog carry them. Tie the rings to your furry buddy’s collar and make sure to add some pretty color coordinating flowers as well! We are wild about the photo below of this man’s best friend as ring bearer from Wild Flowers Inc.

Grandmothers

My personal favorite way of walking your rings down the aisle is the trend of having your grandmother as your flower girl! We absolutely love the idea of adding a twist to a role that is usually reserved for the little ones of the family. Let your grandmothers be in on the ceremony fun and it will be a sweet moment for your entire family! We are smitten with the photo below of the bride and groom’s grandmothers as flower girls from The New York Times.

There are many ways to get your rings down the aisle, which option will you choose?

See you soon,

Paula & Martin Ramirez

Martin and Paula Ramirez are the proprietors of Historic Mankin Mansion Wedding Resort. They enjoy opening their hearts & home to host countless happy couples on their most special day. They have lovingly created a private wedding estate like no other and are honored to share their dream with so many beautiful couples!

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The Night Before…

March 16th, 2015

The rehearsal dinner is over, your guests have settled in their rooms, and tomorrow is the day you’ve been waiting for. How will you ever pass the time until you can walk down the aisle to your one true love? Don’t let the jitters take over and keep yourself occupied!

Prepare (but don’t overdo it!)

You’re allowed to check over your lists and plans once (OK, maybe twice!), just to be sure everything is in place. Have your dress ready in the closet with your day-of accessories nearby. Prepare enough that you won’t be stressed out in the morning, but don’t let yourself get carried away. There’s no need to call the caterer at midnight, just to be sure everything will go smoothly – it will.

Do something special for your partner

We’re not talking about writing your vows or putting together a grand display of affection, but find the time to write a short note or get a small token to surprise him before the ceremony. It’ll add a sweet touch to the day and we’re sure he’ll keep it forever!

Have a slumber party

This may be one of your last opportunities to have a girls’ night in, so take it! Put on your comfiest pajamas, break out a bottle of wine (but don’t overdo it – you don’t want a headache in the morning!), and settle in for a night of movies, games, and fun with your closest ladies.

Give up the iPhone

Hand over your most beloved device to a girlfriend and take the evening to pull back and unwind from the planning process. If there are things that need to be taken care of, delegate the duties to parents or in-laws. You deserve a break! Cutting yourself off from technology will not only allow you to relax with your bridesmaids, but it will also help you sleep better!

Sleep

Do not let your excitement (or your bridesmaids!) get in the way of your sleep! Surely, you’ll have to wake up early to start preparing and the last thing you want on your wedding day is grogginess with a side of under-eye bags. One way to ensure a sound sleep is to wake up extra early the morning before the wedding, so you’ll be ready to hit the hay when it comes to bedtime!

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Source: Brides.com

 

Whatever your night-before plans are, be sure you are relaxing and taking it easy! Don’t let yourself get wrapped up in any stress – consider the planning process out of your hands and allow yourself to enjoy the hours before the wedding for what it is. After all, in less than 24 hours, you’ll be saying “I do” to your special someone!

See you soon,
Paula & Martin Ramirez

Martin and Paula Ramirez are the proprietors of Historic Mankin Mansion Wedding Resort. They enjoy opening their hearts & home to host countless happy couples on their most special day. They have lovingly created a private wedding estate like no other and are honored to share their dream with so many beautiful couples!

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Richmond Wedding: Caitlin and Max

March 9th, 2015

Today, we’re sharing the very special nuptials of Caitlin and Max! Although there was some drizzle throughout the day, this lovely couple didn’t let the weather rain on their parade. We just adore a groom in uniform and we were honored to host their big day!

For an inside look at this gorgeous wedding, take a peek at the eMotion Pictures Wedding Film here. A big thank you to the wonderful wedding team that made Caitlin and Max’s day perfect!

See you soon,
Paula & Martin Ramirez

Martin and Paula Ramirez are the proprietors of Historic Mankin Mansion Wedding Resort. They enjoy opening their hearts & home to host countless happy couples on their most special day. They have lovingly created a private wedding estate like no other and are honored to share their dream with so many beautiful couples!

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Spring Trends We’re Loving!

February 23rd, 2015

Spring is just around the corner and you know what that means – wedding season will be here before you know it! Spring weddings hold a special place in our hearts- we have a soft spot for the lovely weather  and beautiful seasonal flowers.

We love keeping an eye out for what’s on trend in the wedding world and sharing them with our couples for inspiration. And today, we’re sharing a sneak peek on the blog! Take a look at some of the spring trends we’re looking forward to seeing in the upcoming months:

Pastels

One thing we’re looking forward to seeing in the upcoming wedding season is the variety of pastel colors that will no doubt be on hand for the big day. Pinks, blues, greens, yellows – you name it, we love it! From bridesmaids’ dresses to linens and décor, pastels are surely going to make a splash this spring!

Going Green

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Source: LiveEco

Green signifies harmony and growth in life, so we’re excited to see green accents coming up in the spring! We don’t just mean the color green, though; couples will also be going green, with recyclable and eco-friendly décor. Some fun ideas include using plants, as opposed to cut flowers, or providing seeds for guests to grow as favors.

Chalkboard

Chalkboard design is popping up everywhere and we can’t get enough of it! Whether actual chalkboards or simply chalkboard-themed invitations and programs, we love how sweet and customizable this motif can be.

Flowers, Flowers, Flowers!

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Source: Ruffled

Flowers in their hair, flowers in the air, flowers everywhere! While flowers have always been a key part of a wedding, they will be bigger and better this spring. We’ve already been caught swooning over brides’ flower crowns and garlands – keep them coming!

Naked Wedding Cakes

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Source: MODwedding

Naked cakes are pretty new to the scene, but they’re not going anywhere. Stripped of their exterior icing, these cakes go well with the natural, rustic theme. (Not to mention, less calories from icing means more cake, right?) These cakes can be made to fit any color scheme and can be adorned with flowers, as well!

What trends are you looking forward to most this season? Be sure to share in the comments!

Martin and Paula Ramirez are the proprietors of Historic Mankin Mansion Wedding Resort. They enjoy opening their hearts & home to host countless happy couples on their most special day. They have lovingly created a private wedding estate like no other and are honored to share their dream with so many beautiful couples!

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The Intimate “First Look” vs. The Classic “Down the Aisle”

February 16th, 2015

When planning your wedding, you have to make many important decisions: the guest list, the season, and the venue. But at the end of the day, the most important thing about your wedding is the union between you and the person you love. A personal decision you will need to make is if you and your loved one would like to share an intimate “first look” together before the ceremony or if you would like to follow tradition and see one another at the altar after the walk “down the aisle.”

The Intimate “First Look”

A modern approach on how you and your fiancé, or fiancée, can choose to see each other before your “I dos” is the “first look.” The “first look” allows a quiet moment for you and your partner to share in private before the ceremony. This option can be set up with your photographer to capture the moment you see one another. Many couples will choose to stand in a special location back to back and then turn around to face one another for an exciting “first look” experience. This is a wonderful way to start off your married life together!

The Classic “Down the Aisle”

If you would like to stick to tradition, you can choose to see one another during the classic walk “down the aisle.” This is a special way to share your memorable moment with your friends and family. The classic “down the aisle” allows for you and your loved one to have time for the excitement of your marriage to sink in as you walk to meet at the altar. This is an excellent way to show and share your love with the guests at your wedding!

See you soon,

Paula & Martin Ramirez

Martin and Paula Ramirez are the proprietors of Historic Mankin Mansion Wedding Resort. They enjoy opening their hearts & home to host countless happy couples on their most special day. They have lovingly created a private wedding estate like no other and are honored to share their dream with so many beautiful couples!

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